27 July 2010

Talking with a teen...

I just began reading the book Tuscan Holiday by Holly Chamberlin

The quote for today that really struck me as accurate is:

"I swear, sometimes talking to one's child is like negotiating a minefield.  You didn't ask to be in the middle of a minefield, you have no idea how you got there, and all you want to do is survive said minefield with your limbs intact."

The mom character in the book asked a seemingly innocent question on where her daughter got something and instead of a simple answer, received many defensive non-answers.  The mom simply had wanted to know where she had found the item.  I find this type of conversation occurring more and more frequently in my house.  Is there something I am doing to cause this defensiveness or is it just a teenage stage?

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